Learn Your Lesson

This is a new year 2006. :D Everything is new, seems so. New school work, new relationship stage, new work target, new keyboard, new computer, new leather shoe, new black belt, new blog entry :) .

Everybody asked, when are you going to graduate with a PhD degree, I always say, mmm :? , I dont know :p , may be two more years. And now, after new year celebration, I'm still answering, ... may be two more years :? .

Friends asking, what's your GF's name? Sometimes I tell them her name, sometimes I simply say, guess, hint is merely '6', sometimes I just say ... . Somebody can make big news around the world with the guessing :? , so I recall and extended my favourite phrase :) . Whenever you feel someone having 'saliva more than tea' }:) , you can say, "mao gong }:) , mao cao }:) , mao li }:) , mao mun }:) , mao giao :o , mao luk :d ".

Today is 13 Jan, and is Friday. Today doesnt seems a good day for me, but still another happy day (eventually), and I learned something :) .

1. When girl is talking, never try complicated interceptions with your own thinkings, ideas, ... , let them finish.
2. Once they finished, you can summarize and present your thinkings, ideas, corrections in the simplest form, 1 sentence.
3. After presenting your 1 sentence summary, if they continue their talkings, or do not accept your points, do not explain your summary anymore, continue listening to the girl. You can even change topics :p .
4. If you are chatting in instant messenger, and the girl suddenly offline, you might be blocked from her contact list, she might be under invisible mode to you.
5. If you get to this stage, being blocked or she is in invisible mode, try to comfort her quick. Those "Be happy, dont angry, calling their common name, smile, cheers, ..." most likely will not work. Try something more creative. :?
6. When her mood is back to good, back talking to you, never talk about the incident just now anymore. Change topic!

After today, I have many lessons yet to learn:

1. Sense the status of the girl fast. This helps you to stop argueing before the volcano exploded.
2. Remain calm, not to panic. Once I panic, my conversation will go chaos, leading to lots of misunderstandings.
3. Patient. As long as you are patient enough, carefully constructing your comforting strategy, you'll end up in happy stage eventually.
4. Special treatment. Always reserve some special ways of treating her, like special ways of calling her name, special ways of talking, ... When you have arguments, these can be extremely useful. However, extensive use of these special treatments will no longer special anymore.

I've learned much, and blogged much today. Wish you all happy :)